virtual realism

One needs to be on constant watch





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Yesterday, the day just flew by. Meeting people,counseling indirectly,bringing in optimism & cheer around.

Finally, I was smiling all by myself remembering my favorite Pak stand up comedian actor Umer.

I remember, it was quite a favorite past time and hugely popular amongst me & family.His might have been the only motion pictures Ma would allow me to watch with family especially with Bhai around, over lovely family dinners,crunchies to munch later  with coolers all set in verandah and ‘bakra qishton pe’ or ‘buddhaa ghar pe hai?’or any comedy enact  of his being savored by us collectively.


I never forgot the joy ‘Umer plays’ brought to my primary years of life.

You would too love him and savor his art. And if you thought we could make a fan club,do touch base


Tea…m Steam

Steaming Hot Tea


Sometimes, Sadness is in air.

Just everything looks like as if undergoing strain.

Look around you as I did,

there was a face so young & innocent.

It gave me hope I went back to what I was doing happily,

Sadness, was gone making space for that face,who was dreamy

& so innocent and chaste.

I could not disappoint it .



      Love , Zeal & Obsession towards the Work

A passion that  lifts the spirits!

And … times drifts the spirits too. 

An addiction that sees few people through,only when they have touched an extreme. But they prefer still staying workaholics.

What is your take on this?

घराना विरासत

If you ask me from the connoisseur’s point of view, I would say there is nothing like classics. Classics have style, they have their language which is perceived from hearts through hearts but the talent, the hard work that goes into it all is legendary.

Legends were born but they discovered themselves always when they recognized their inner instincts & uniqueness and went that way pursuing abstract to realize so.

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                    Sitar that danced to his tune. He was attuned to it vice cersa.

Pt.Ravi Shankar of Maihar Gharana

We miss you,Pandit ji.


Special ability/Disability

What ever the name can be changed, the essence of the things never change.Your attitude doesn’t change, my pain doesn’t change.

There have been times, your insensitivity to everything that is me has caused me a silent grief, I have not shown repulsion to any of that. Pain in silence, I have borne in peace.

There have been times, I have lain low. There were sneers that were there to take in my stride. I have killed myself to prove a point-my being different had never been my mistake.

sudha Chandran

I have smiled braving my tears at times,

I have cried behind my smiles at times,

I have lived the life,

Different & Differently.

But I am never indifferent altogether to your indifference too.

Struggle is twice altogether in life in a specially abled one’s life:

To prove a point differently;

To make a point differently;

Brave the oddities differently;

Smile despite several oddities.

These people do not need special opportunities to prove themselves.But dignity enough to fit in parameters of society gracefully.Do your bit. Give them a reason to feel that way-

They were born or are different because they shall do things ‘differently.’

Their Smiles are perceived differently,

Their Spirits soar differently.

They are not any different than rest of masses,

when you say, they are gifted differently.

But inspire them make that difference ‘differently’.

Do not look at them as if people from another planet.

Do not whisper so silently your generalizations till you know you are to handle these people sensitively.

You never know,what it is to live ‘differently.’


Well, I have never seen a reason myself to champion the cause of specially abled people  for I always thought that this is mental toughness which end of the day helps them survive the oddities of life. I have hated any extra efforts in the direction to make life less difficult for being a specially abled person. But now after coming to this stage of life where I have done enough to keep me going in mind,heart,soul-materialism. I have suddenly realized that not every specially abled person is Sudha Chandran,the diva who bore the grinding pain but got into performing arts with the amputated limb or Beethoven, who composed great symphonies even having gone deaf himself during his career or Prof.Stephen Hawkings , great Physicist diagnosed with ALS, a form of Motor Neurone Disease.

Prof Hawkings

In every day life too we come across people who have had a challenging life but never got that feel of that blessing which nature never forgets to pour in when it takes away one faculty.I still won’t say that spoon feeding or over protection does that wonder.I would rather say, “Empower the mind” to “never mind” the oddities & keep living with “enough dignity” & “beauty.”

I was reading about an NGO back in Bengaluru sheltering 140+ specially abled girls & making them independent.I have also seen people who have had heart & homes open to the cause & suddenly I felt road was not alone.There were companions walking the scroll.

At Infiniti, we are equal opportunity employees. We try to include variations in our team, sensitize the team enough to respect the ‘different’ what is there with the colleagues.But at the same time include them as part of mainstream.

We can be our natural self-

Kind & thoughtful ever to avoid

Questions so silent,that sting